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As a divorced adult, we have been freed of all (most) of those constraints.Now, instead of suffering through the bad times, we can just move on.And I listened too much, and too long, when I should’ve ended the “going nowhere” date. Quit trying to respond before you’ve heard what she’s saying.” Yes, that’s true in relationship, but in a dating, and early dating situation, you need to listen, but do it lightly. And if you are a touchy-feely person as well, we’re going to hit it off wonderfully. What I was doing was using my “honest feelings” as a way to hook you.

And good luck.”When you are still reeling from the collapse of your marriage, you might be ready for some free love, but the completion of the work needed to actually enjoy it is still a few months or years down the road.

When I am clear, I can make rational and appropriate decisions. Or a single whole relationship, that’s my ultimate goal, one relationship.

When the chemistry is ON but the warning signs are also shining bright, I can walk away from the temptation. But I’ve got a long way to go before settling down.

The closer we get to our own innate joy (even when alone) the more we are able to recognize the same joy in others.

And it’s a process—we don’t emerge from divorce happy and hopeful.

But I have figured out some things along the way that are measures of my readiness—or any man’s readiness—for his next intimate relationship. Even though she was resetting and I was being accommodating, I was ignoring my own over-accommodating tendencies. THREE: He’s too eager to listen.“Women really want you to listen.” It’s advice you’re going to get from both men and women when you start dating again. Listening is something we’ve become less and less adept at over the years, and with the increasing pace of life and technological interruptions.

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