They want to care together for their child, to love, to think.
But men in Russia prefer to put all the care on women's shoulders.
It is an expensive pleasure now in Russia and the government helps families with children very little. Many Russian men are not good fathers and it hurts women.Guess who has more letters, more choice and more chances to find their love, these 50 percent who are just sitting and waiting for their dream girl to write to them or men who are active themselves, who search themselves and who answer also women who write to them?Yes, the second group of men has much higher chances, especially if to take into account that many women do not want to be the initiators of the communication, they have traditional views on this and regard men as an active side. But the strategy that surpsises me most is the attitude of some men who need 10 times (or something like that) of confirmation that this particular woman wants to communicate with them.American men are more caring to their children and not to only their children.A woman can hope that if she marries an American he will be a good father to her child and to their own one or two more children. Life in European or American countries is more stable and predictable than in Russia.It is not the main reason but one of the reasons why Russian beauitfulgirls leave Russia. You want to live and not to worry what you will live on in several years.