Here is a clear indication you are in a lopsided love affair: You make all of the plans.
You have introduced him to your family and friends.
If he has never planned a special day or night without your input, picked you up, opened your door and whisked you away, then you have never been on a real date. He will become the greatest husband and father in the world (I know from experience).
It is clear whether a man thinks foreplay is a golf game or a steamy gift from God. This is a man who is not impulsive; he thinks and feels equally.
Intimacy is mental, physical, emotional and spiritual.
If one of these pillars is missing, then so is the intimacy; it’s condemned.
If I am describing the person you are with, you are dating a boy, not a man. Here’s a golden rule: Don’t waste your time with someone who wastes their own time.Are you always pulling him along in every decision, plan, thought and action?You know the feeling—you are walking in quicksand with 180 to 200 pounds latched to your ankles.Don’t let him fool you with his New Agey-spiritual bullsh*t: “I live in the moment, who knows what will be in an hour, a day or a week.” What will be?He will still be spewing the same line a week from now, a month from now, and you will have gray hair.The inability to keep a clean home and care for his belongings, speaks to the lack of control he has over his mind. If a man leaves you when you are trying to express yourself, or the conversation gets uncomfortable and heated—he doesn’t know how to cope properly. If he physically runs away, he abandons his heart too. If a man cannot express his love for you, he does not love himself.