Their words carry more weight because they have experienced what they are talking about. All of this allows for an openness that makes a date or casual interaction much more enjoyable. When I’m in China, I tend to turn a lot of heads, especially in the countryside — and that’s not just because I’m a foreigner.
Reconsidering my motivations for those decisions now, I recognize one that dominated the others: despite my attraction for those women at the time, I didn't want to look around myself ten years later and see a hotter, younger girl - closer to my own age - and think "I could have been with a girl like that instead." When my wife starts aging, I want the other girls I could have had (i.e.This is because of the natural accumulation of experiences over time. Older women are more confident than younger women, because they know themselves and the world better. Perhaps most importantly, they are not afraid of men, so their inhibitions in a man's presence are less severe. At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.I spent about a year dating almost exclusively women older than myself.It tapers out slowly and often quite gracefully - far more slowly than it arises in a girl's late teens.