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Another incident was when I have my age limit stated on my profile. " Then, if I ignore a message sometimes they don't give up. I do nothing to deserve this, why do they send me messages with all this hate and attacking me? I even say in my profile "Please only message me if you are looking for a serious relationship, not a hook-up". and then go and message me with something so stupid like "hey sexii!!! I know you will all say "just ignore them, they are immature".
Time after time I get men who say on their profiles they are only looking for a hook-up. It's almost like if I state what I want, guys who do not meet my criteria will message me just to annoy me! Why do men have such well-written profiles that sound so mature and serious, saying how they are looking for a meaningful relationship and they are hard-working, gentleman, etc.
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